Over 200 pages of marriage saving advice

While marriage is supposed to be a daily joy, many people struggle with common issues.

This book has been created with your happiness in mind. It addresses the everyday issues which can cause big problems for many married couples.

It is not the issues, but the lack of strategy that seems to be the problem with many marriages.

What's inside the book

Step 1. Treat your partner like a lover

• Treat him like a prince
• Why should I be the one who changes?
• Listen to your partner
• Take an interest in your partner
• Notice the way you treat your partner
• Do you treat him poorly?
• Do you treat the children better than him?
• Do you treat your partner like a child?
• Men show their love differently
• Observe the way he treats his mother
• Falling in love
• Falling out of love
• The two types of romantic love
• Staying in love
• Are you an infatuation junkie?
• Case Study: Patricia
• Homework: Study other couples

Step 2. Be yourself & let your partner be himself

• Please yourself
• Do what you love doing to feel truly alive
• Fulfill your dreams and have no regrets
• Your friends are important
• Your partner is only the icing on the cake
• Your work affects your marriage
• Keep your life in balance
• Some time apart is great
• Too much time apart can be harmful
• Have your own hobbies
• Don't be a prisoner in your marriage
• Accept your partner
• Women and work
• Men and work
• Don't be a marriage martyr
• Case Study: Meaghan
• Homework: If you love him, but you're not in love with him
• Homework: What are you not doing with your life?

Step 3. Communicate well every day

• Have daily chats
• Do you find your man needs "unwind time"?
• Be your partner's best friend
• Breakfast, Dinner and Bed Time
• Know what you want
• Don't settle for an average marriage
• Be honest with yourself
• Be honest with your partner
• Do fun things together
• Laugh together
• Ask for what you want and need
• Case study: Roger
• Letter to my wife
• Letter to my husband
• Homework: Keep communication flowing. Don't hold back

Step 4. Invest time & money in your relationship

• Invest time in grooming
• Invest money in your relationship
• Have a weekly family afternoon
• Make your partner a priority
• Case Study: Leanne
• Case Study: Anthony
• Homework: Have a weekly date night

Step 5. Stop finding fault and start praising

• Praise your partner daily
• Try not to criticize your partner
• Nitpickers Beware!
• Stop complaining and start outsourcing
• Avoid bitching sessions
• The grass is not always greener
• My story: over a decade ago
• My story: now
• Homework: Never complain about your partner to other people

Step 6. Plan the romance

• Look ready for romance
• Clothes make the man
• Dress sexy and you'll feel sexy
• Does hubby prefer the natural look?
• Flirt with your partner daily
• Is your bedroom like a hotel room?
• Interview with a "spy for women"
• Homework: Do up your bedroom together

Step 7. Restore the passion

Part A: Problems in the bedroom

• Married women and sex
• Married men and sex
• Differing sexual appetites
• Men and women are different
• Are you a habitual leg crosser?
• 8 Reasons why you may be rejecting him
• Sexual frustration in men
• Sexual frustration in women
• Don't just lie there
• Men need to chase
• Homework: Wives who neglect their husbands

Part B: Ideas & Suggestions

• Praise - Make your man feel like a stud
• Show him what you want
• Foreplay makes all the difference
• Not in the mood? Try a little O.F.F. (Obligation free foreplay)
• Standard Foreplay vs Advanced Foreplay
• Having sex is like eating a nice meal
• Sex is all about give and take
• There is more to life than missionary
• Four basic types of sex
• The female orgasm
• The three main types of female orgasms
• Not having orgasms?
• The Big O - ten tips for more orgasms
• Create a mood
• Dirty Talk
• Sexy clothing - Lingerie - Kinky Toys
• Clothing, Lingerie, Toys & Accessories
• Fantasies and Games
• Dress-ups for two
• Striptease
• Dirty dancing at home
• Sex Show for one
• A man with erection has altered perception
• Let your nightie say it all
• Middle of the night romps
• Star in your own video
• Buy some mirrors for the bedroom
• Interview: Sex worker
• Homework: It's all in the eyes
• Homework: Hot night workout
• Quiz: How well do you know each other?

Step 8. How to avoid or survive an affair

• Keep sexual thoughts on your partner
• The Mind Equation
• The Mind Equation relating to fantasies
• 5 reasons why people have an affair
• Your mind can lead you into an affair
• Flirting: The two different types
• Be careful who you flirt with
• Internet affairs
• After baby affair
• Scent based sexual attraction
• Are you too busy working?
• You don't need a spare partner
• Affairs destroy the soul
• Stopping an affair
• What if your partner is having an affair?
• There are two sides to every affair
• Avoid affairs by keeping your distance
• Emotional affairs (triangles)
• My emotional affair
• Do you actually love the other person?
• Case Study: Inside the mind of a mistress
• Interview: Bull (player)
• Quiz: Are you having an emotional affair?
• Quiz: Are you heading for an affair?
• Quiz: Is your partner having an affair?

Step 9. Children should enhance your marriage

• Childbirth changes a woman forever
• Childbirth is like a little hurricane
• Creating balance in your life
• Teach your children about life
• Praise your children daily
• Never argue in front of children
• Circle of life
• Homework: Have a weekly children's night

Step 10. Argue effectively

• Don't be scared to argue
• Three "Golden Argument Rules"
• When did the fighting begin?
• Resentment destroys marriages
• Ten quick tips for resolving conflict
• My favorite tip: keep yourself happy
• Don't sweep your problems under a rug
• Don't let your house become a war zone
• Messy home, messy mind, messy life
• Case Study: Terrie
• Homework: Do a R " P Check list (Quiz)

Step 11. Improve your financial situation

• Free yourself of debt
• Save then buy
• Money is not the root of all evil
• Bills are a part of life
• Teach your children about money
• Money is made in the mind first
• Case Study: Ben and Lisa
• Homework: Start saving 10% of all you earn

Step 12. Avoid & survive everything else

• Avoid living in the wrong house
• Avoid clingy friends
• Survive angry outbursts and tantrums
• Avoid violence in your marriage
• Interview with a survivor of violence
• Survive the wedding
• Survive the first year of marriage
• Survive a midlife crisis
• Survive workaholics
• Survive working together
• Survive PMT
• Survive depression
• Quiz: Depression (the mindset)
• Quiz: Depression (get your life back)
• Survive jealousy in the marriage
• Survive the mother-in-law
• Survive gaining weight
• Survive your nightmares and dreams
• Survive marrying a clone of your parent
• Survive a break up
• Survive finding the perfect man
• Survive family
• Case Study: Bianca
• Homework: Don't give up on love, just because you think it is easier

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