Step 5.
Stop finding fault and start praising
- Can you relate to any of these statements?
My wife won’t stop nagging me. My husband constantly criticizes me. My husband complains constantly. My wife yells at me. My partner always puts me down. My partner is verbally abusive. I have a controlling husband. My wife treats me like a child. I am not respected in this marriage.
The answer is simple:
Stop criticizing and start praising. The change in your relationship will astound you.
Focus on your partner's strengths and not their weaknesses. The more you think about their positives, the more positives you will see, which will make your relationship stronger.
- Have you ever sat with a woman who has constantly complained about her husband? Well I have, and it is sickening! No person can have a wonderful marriage, if they spend all their time winging about their spouse to friends, and anyone who will listen. Complaining about your partner affects marriages, in a very detrimental way. Discover how this can be changed.
- Discover some of the mind techniques that are key to a happy marriage, as I discuss my story of my failing marriage (over ten years ago), and my story of my wonderful marriage (now)... with the same man. What changes did I make? What mistakes did i make in the past, that you could be making today?
- Homework: This homework, when practised regularly, will help you to improve your marriage and alleviate any resentment towards your spouse.
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No woman can be happily married if she is nitpicking her husband. Similarly, most men seem to be controlling husbands....Find out how to turn this around, so you can feel freedom again.
Focus on your partners' strengths,
and watch their weaknesses fade.