Argue Effectively
Can you relate to any of these statements?
Involved in an emotionally abusive relationship? My partner is always angry with me. I’m thinking about leaving her. I love him but we fight all the time. Why should I be the one to forgive? Why should I be the one to give in? My partner gives me the silent treatment – what should I do? I feel so resentful. What are the tips for resolving conflicts in marriage?
Step 10.
Argue effectively
An argument is an opportunity to understand what is going on in the mind of your spouse.
Once the argument is over, consider the issues that need to be discussed to avoid further conflicts.
- Why is arguing so healthy for your relationship?
- Discover the three "Golden Argument Rules"
- If you are fighting a lot, think back to when the fighting began?
- Why does resentment destroy marriages
- These "Ten quick tips for resolving conflict" have saved many a marriage. If you act now, you can avoid the pain of continued arguments, or possible separation.
- My favourite tip: What you can do while you and your spouse cool off?
- Why you shouldn't sweep your problems under a rug?
- How to stop your house becoming a war zone?
- Case Study: Terrie - Learn how by helping herself, Terrie helped the marriage.
- Homework: Do a R & P Check list (Quiz) (This checklist is great for couples who feel like their relationship is at its end. This checklist is a good tool to analyse the relationship, and see if it's worth salvaging. Most people who use this, realize the relationship, is in fact, worth the effort.
Stop the long wars, by arguing effectively. Peace is far easier to live with.
Argue as often as you like.
Just argue well, and make it fast.